The Dates of Our Lives

Episode 17 - Star Date (-1298730.23)

In this episode Christy and Tanesia wax dreamy while discussing the Star Card, reflecting on the ancient watery quiet emanating off of it, and the experiences they had on much needed dates with themselves.  Get cozy, light some incense, and listen to these lilting and wandering musings! 
 
#starcardtarot #datewithyourself #artistdate #JuliaCameron #datesofourlivespodcast
If you have questions for “You’ve Got Mail” DM on instagram @dateofourlivespod or write to us at datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com.  We love to hear your dating questions, tarot questions, and everything in between!
 
Thanks to Dr. Jaguar for the music!
 
 
 
Published on April 8, 2024

Episode 16 - The Fesitval of the Towering Dong

An 8 ft long, 1 foot wide episode about all things ding-a-ling.  In our longest episode yet (1 hour 56 minutes–not that we’re measuring it or anything), Christy and Tanesia discuss slang words, biological phenomena, pegging, strap-ons, actual penis festivals, and the messages of the tower card as they relate to creative energy, receptivity and the beauty of embodying both penetrative and slurpy receptive sexual energy.  Tanesia also interviews special guest Rudy Montoya asking an expert all our curiousest queries.
 
Thanks to Dr Jaguar for original intro music.  Thank you Rudy Montoya for being our guest expert and answering our questions! Thank you Chuck Berry for writing “My Ding-a-Ling.” Outro cover of this song performed by Christy Cook.
 
This is an uncommonly LONG episode.  We thought we’d provide you with a Table of Contents in case it’s too much to take all at once.
 
2:30 Free Association
5:41 Name that Dong
10:37 Penis Lore - Biology! 
34:15 Strap ons
52:00 Actual Penis Festivals
1:02 Bringing it back to the Tarot
1:09 Phallacies - Quick fire questions with Special guest Rudy Montoya
 
 
Fact check: echidnas are MONOTREMES (egg laying mammals) to note: their young are called “puggles.”
 
For a more scientifically rendered tale of tarantula sex see:  https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/eaten-crushed-or-starved-male-tarantulas-trade-their-life-to-impregnate-a-mate/#:~:text=Using%20a%20specialized%20appendage%20near,into%20the%20female's%20abdominal%20cavity
 
Other resources and articles:
 
Animal Penii:
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/nine-weirdest-penises-animal-kingdom-180976274/
 
Slug Mating Magic: 
https://youtu.be/ST_AEmm3GmI?si=gZ8DI-DTK-MtE4mC
 
Strap ons:
https://g-silicone.com/2017/09/01/history-strapon-sex/
 
https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a29902964/why-women-like-pegging-men/
 
Further Reading on Kanamara Matsuri:
https://theculturetrip.com/asia/japan/articles/how-to-celebrate-kanamara-matsuri-tokyos-penis-festival
 
#slugsex #EFFthePatriarchy #Podcast #Podwifelife #TheTower #towercardtarot #magic #penisduels #totheinsemination  #hemipenis #prongeddong #prehensilepenis #penislore #FestivaloftheToweringDong #phallophoria #suitofwands #towercardtarot #creativeenergy #maypole #joystick #generderfuckery 
#kanamaramatsuri #penispops #penispuns #turtlemode #toxicmasculinity #manscaping #penisculture #dicpick #tradingcards #bigdickenergy #bigdaddyenergy #dingaling #strapons #ancestraldildos #releasethefloodgates #femmegushing #bourani
 
Published March 25, 2024

Episode 15 - Devilishly Powerful

Welcome baaack to the Dates of Our Lives.  Join Tanesia and Christy as they introduce the third season of the pod, and chat about the third line of the Tarot, the Devil Card, and how person power intersects relationships in magical ways. #deviltarotcard #datesofourlivespodcast #personalpower #tarot #magic #relationships
 
Please send your dating/magic questions to our instagram @datesofourlivespod or to datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com for "You've Got Mail!!"
 
Thank you Dr. Jaguar Bashwiner for our theme music.  
Influences and mentions: the work of Sarah Faith Gottesdiener (SFG), and Bess Matassa's Tarot Almanac!
 
 

Episode 14- Temperance, the Unknown and Threesome Etiquette

In the final episode of the season, Tanesia and Christy talk to returning guest, Pete, about the etiquette of threesomes, the alchemy of the Temperance card, and the magic and possibility of the unknown.  Paying homage to endings and new beginnings, the three cast a sexy spell full of unknowns and alchemical possibilities! 
Special thanks to Dr Jaguar for our theme music and Pete Bourland for being up for an adventure!
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If you have ideas for season 3, a hilarious dating story, questions for "You've Got Mail!" or just want to shower us with sweetness you can send correspondence to: datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com
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Published on May 22, 2023

Episode 13- C-O-M-E! Spells La Petite Death!

In this episode Christy and Tanesia drink beer again and discuss the etymology of La Petite Mort, types of orgasms, and how these things might connect to the death card in the tarot.  Join us while we cum to some pretty remarkable realizations and revelations!  
Thanks to Dr. Jaguar for composing our theme music and check out these other folks who we mention in this episode: This Paranormal Life Podcast @thisparanormallife, Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics Podcast (this episode is the one we reference), Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski @enagoski, and adrienne maree brown's work on pleasure activism @adriennemareebrown.
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#PeteyDinkley #TheDatesOfOurLivesPodcast #PodWives #Tarot #Death #LaPetiteMort #Etymology #CellMagic #TimeMagic #WafflesAndILoveYou #PodCastLife #PodcastersOfInstagram 
 
Published on March 20, 2023
 

Episode 12 - Tie Me Up: Hanging Out With The Hanged One

In this episode we talk about the Hanged One tarot archetype, and BDSM!  Content warning: we discuss themes around sex, restraint, porn, power dynamics, pain, vulnerability, humiliation play, breath play, shame, domination, and more. If you feel triggered by these topics, take care of yourself, and opt out of this episode.  Know we are basing our conversation in joy!
Check out Haylin Belay @haylin.co on instagram!
 
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Thank you Dr. Jaguar for the theme music.
 
#bananasip #bananaslip #tomandjerrycosplay #experts #BDSM #powerbottom #vulnerability #hangedone #tarot #solvedalltheproblemswithourmanholes #manholes #lobsters #fantasy #consent 
 
Published on March 6, 2023
 

Episode 11 - Justice: Getting Clear About the Messy Crush Energy

Join Christy and Tanesia in a new Chariot year!  We talk about the messy middle—both in tarot terms (transitioning from the Lovers to the Chariot through the lens of Justice)  and in CRUSH ENERGY terms!  You know that vibe-y fun energy that makes you feel alive and vibrant?  Does it have to be dependent on someone else? Maybe not!?
#crushenergy #tarotmath #motorboat_thetruth 
 
Thank you Dr. Jaguar for our theme music!
 
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Published on January 23, 2023

Episode 10 - Wheel! Of! Dating!

In this episode Christy and Tanesia think about dating whilst playing board games with their dates, Jordan and Pete.  First impressions!  Curiosity!  Play!  Patience!  Explore these themes with us as we play Heart Throb and Dream Crush at Empire Board Games in Albuqerque.
 
Thank you to guests Pete Bourland and Jordan Hines!  Thank you Empire Board Games for hosting us on the DL, and to Dr. Jaguar for our theme music.
 
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Published on November 21, 2022

Episode 9 - The Hermit Let’s Sleeping Ghosts Lie

In this episode, Tanesia and Christy share ghost(ing) stories with special guest, Rudy Montoya.  Join them by the fire as they explore the surprisingly tender side of ghosting!
 
Thanks to Dr Jaguar for the theme music and to Rudy Montoya for making us cackle back so much!  
If you have an episode idea, a hilarious dating story or just want to shower us with sweetness you can send correspondence to: datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com
Remember to DM us your ideas for "You've Got Mail"—a new segment that will start in our next episode!
We are on apple, spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.  Listen and share with all your flings, dates, and exes!
Follow us on Instagram @datesofourlivespod or on our website: datesofourlivespodcast.podbean.com
 
Published on October 31, 2022

Episode 8 - Find Your Strength...Flirt, Bitch!

In this episode, Christy and Tanesia are back and rowdier than ever!  They introduce the new season talking about flirting while flirting with each other.  Catch up on how they are conceiving of their dating projects and consider how the energy of flirting works for you!  
Don't forget to DM your dating topic for "You've Got Mail!"  @datesofourlivespod
Thanks to Dr. Jaquar, Igneous Oat and Geode Amaryllis, and our accountant (wink wink).  
#CackleBack #CackleTrack #flirting #strength #tarot #magic #dating #datesofourlivespodcast #datingwitches #datingbitches
 
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