The Dates of Our Lives

Episode 9 - The Hermit Let’s Sleeping Ghosts Lie

In this episode, Tanesia and Christy share ghost(ing) stories with special guest, Rudy Montoya.  Join them by the fire as they explore the surprisingly tender side of ghosting!
 
Thanks to Dr Jaguar for the theme music and to Rudy Montoya for making us cackle back so much!  
If you have an episode idea, a hilarious dating story or just want to shower us with sweetness you can send correspondence to: datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com
Remember to DM us your ideas for "You've Got Mail"—a new segment that will start in our next episode!
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Published on October 31, 2022

Episode 8 - Find Your Strength...Flirt, Bitch!

In this episode, Christy and Tanesia are back and rowdier than ever!  They introduce the new season talking about flirting while flirting with each other.  Catch up on how they are conceiving of their dating projects and consider how the energy of flirting works for you!  
Don't forget to DM your dating topic for "You've Got Mail!"  @datesofourlivespod
Thanks to Dr. Jaquar, Igneous Oat and Geode Amaryllis, and our accountant (wink wink).  
#CackleBack #CackleTrack #flirting #strength #tarot #magic #dating #datesofourlivespodcast #datingwitches #datingbitches
 
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Dates of Our Lives Season 2 coming soon!

We’re coming back for season 2 in September!  In the meantime send us your 1-3 minute stories about pandemic dating or ghosting! Audio files can be sent to datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com
 
While your waiting stream all of season 1!
 
music by Dr Jaguar

Episode 7 - The Chariot and Slug Girl Summer

Christy and Tanesia discuss the Chariot card, internalized capitalism and their approach to a hot, lazy summer!  The subject of dating takes a backseat in our chariot as we take a pod break for summer!We will return to regular podding in September.   In the meantime, catch up on old episodes!  Also, please send us your thoughts and reach out about dating, love, vehicles of self-determination—whatever!  Write to us at datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com, follow us on Instagram @datesofourlivespodThank you Dr. Jaguar for our Theme Music.  End of episode music performed by Christy.  Original song by Amanda McBroom, but made famous by Bette.
#thechariot #sluggirlsummer #datingyourself
 
Originally published June 20, 2022.

Episode 6 -What Do You Want? (A Conversation with the Lovers)

In this episode Tanesia and Christy ask each other and others "what do you want?" regarding relationships, love, and dating.  We talk about the Lovers card and choice!Thank you to Dr. Jaguar for composing our music.  Thank you to all our friends, or "callers" (double entendre?) who answered our question this week!
 
Originally published May 2, 2022#accidentaleasy #secretgreedy #hunchkin #tarot #magic #choice #whatdoyouwant

Episode 5 - Gesturing Grandly with the Hierophant

In this episode Tanesia and Christy talk to folks about the lessons they've learned from the "higher authority" (or Hierophant) of Rom Coms!  We discuss grand gestures, conflict and self growth montages, frivolity and the iconic 'meet cute.'  Thank you to guests: Dani Belvin, Ian Colburn, Emily Schuyler, Brennan, and George and Lorraine Cook!Thank you Dr. Jaguar for our theme music!If you would like to reach out please write to us at datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com
#hierophant #romcoms #accidentaleasy #grandgestures #meetcutes #montage
Originally published on April 18, 2022.

Episode 4 - Who’s Your Daddy?: Structures that Bind and Structures that Free Us.

In this episode Tanesia, Christy and Jordan discuss Patriarchy and dating through the lens of the Emperor card.  They dish about daddies, structures that are imposed, and dream into structures they want to create.  
 
For next week we are seeking your responses!  What have you learned from the "authority" of Rom Coms (or contemporary romance lit) about relationships or dating? —Good, or bad!  Please send short audio files with your answers to datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com  
 
Thank you Dr. Jaguar for composing the Dates of Our Lives theme music.  Thank you Jordan for participating as a guest host this week!
 
 #emperor #tarot #daddies #zaddy #zaddies #smashthepatriarchy #envisioningsystemsofcare
 
Originally Published: Apr. 04, 2022 @ 7AM 

Episode 3 - Abundance, Reciprocity, and Bathtubs with the Empress

In this episode Christy and Tanesia share updates about their dating projects--including highlights from their date with each other #willyoubemytatdaddy?  They discuss how themes, symbols and energies of the Empress card relate to romancing oneself.  
 
Thank to Chaney Howe @chanaya_twain and Shadow of Comfort Tattoo for facilitating our date with eachother.  
 
Theme music by David (Dr. Jaguar) Bashwiner.
 
#empress #selflove #selfcare #reciprocity #abundance #comedy #dating #tatdaddy
Originally published  Mar. 14, 2022 @ 7AM

Episode 2 - The High Priestess Goes on a First Date

Christy and Tanesia discuss First Dates, and in particular the first dates they went on on Valentines Day!  We hear some audio moments from their dates, and more!  What makes a first date great?
 
Thank you to Kate V. and Ezra.  Theme music composed by Dr. Jaguar.
 
#firstdates #valentines #tarot #highpriestess #magic #comedy #dating
 
Originally published in February 2022

Episode 1 - Magic Mic-rophone and Lupercalia

In the first official episode Christy and Tanesia talk about Valentines Day, cards of love, and it's origin in the festival of Lupercalia.  Special guest Kate V. gives us some more information about the witchy holiday and we here some hot takes from our listeners!
 
#valentinesday #comedy #tarot #magic #hottakes #lupercalia #puzzlepurse 
 
Originally published on February 14, 2022